Strength lies with surrender

Some will tell you subs are weak creatures, unable to think for themselves thus needing someone to command them.

Not true.

They want to be told what to do all the time.

Not true.

They need someone to make them knee and kiss the boot.

Not true.

That they want to be treated poorly and humiliated and beat.

Not true.

What is true is that subs are strong. Subs think for themselves. Subs make choices for themselves. And they choose to submit to a Dominant.
It takes a thinking person to decide the course of his/her life. He/ She learns and questions each step of the way, never satisfied with a "pat" answer. He/She thinks, discovers and never stops wanting to know more.

He/She sees the process as a journey as does the Dom. A journey that upon acceptance of her submission, becomes his/her responsibility to direct. Notice I said direct! He/she is very much a part of the process. This is a journey they are both taking, together. They have a vision.

A sub is not weak. To take everything that you are and give it to another, takes strength of will and character.
Never underestimate the power of a sub.


It takes a strong person to be willing to be vulnerable, to open up the deepest parts of her soul. To put aside past pain and overcome his/her fear.

"When I dare to be powerful - to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid”

 Audre Lorde