Sometimes, a few chosen words can mean so much. As I said before, they have to be followed by actions. And when they are, there are possibilities.
What does a Dom see when a sub speaks? A chance meeting, a glance, eyes meet and a shock is felt. Does he know as well as she?
She sees in him possibilities. Possibilities of that unique relationship, that coming together that she dreams of, the intangible circle of completeness that she craves.
What does he see? Does he see her power? her longing to serve? Does he see the possibilities?
They meet, they talk and talk some more. Each probes and thinks, examines and engages the other. A relationship does not grow in a moment, but all it takes is a moment to start.
Sunday, April 24, 2011
Submission is given
Submission is a gift. It can only be given, not taken or demanded.
Let me explain, one can force someone to submit in the physical sense. Force one to obey through fear. But that submission drains power from the oppressor.
True submission is given freely and increases the power of the Dominant. Crucial to this is that the sub is made complete. Subs and Doms can and do live happily and fully. But the completion of the circle, submission given and accepted lifts both to a level that cannot exist without each other.
There is a catch. Once the gift is given, it must be accepted and cared for so that it may grow deeper and the circle become stronger. A ring, a circle, a collar.
The deeper the submission, the stronger the Dom and the stronger the complete circle.
Let me explain, one can force someone to submit in the physical sense. Force one to obey through fear. But that submission drains power from the oppressor.
True submission is given freely and increases the power of the Dominant. Crucial to this is that the sub is made complete. Subs and Doms can and do live happily and fully. But the completion of the circle, submission given and accepted lifts both to a level that cannot exist without each other.
There is a catch. Once the gift is given, it must be accepted and cared for so that it may grow deeper and the circle become stronger. A ring, a circle, a collar.
Sunday, April 17, 2011
Words
What are words? A way of expressing ourselves, of saying what we think. Words can explain scientific facts or explain the beauty of a sunset. Words can encourage and words can hurt. Words can convey thoughts and feelings and intentions.
But words are easy. It is easy to say something, it is easy to find just the right word to make someone take notice, or someone look away .
Words.
Say what you mean. Say what you are. Say what you feel.
Words.
Words have no power without actions. Words are like a leaf in the wind. Here one moment and gone the next unless the action is behind them.
It is easy to learn words. And it is easy to say words. It is not so easy to do words. To say what you mean and then to do it.
Words.
Say I love you. Say it 1000 times. Say it again. What is it? Said and gone. Love me, that is harder to do.
Words.
Words can be weapons. Words can hurt and destroy the fragile soul of a sub. Measure your words, speak slowly. Follow the words with an action.
Throw out words. Make them sound good. Use them to soothe, to hurt, to teach or to tear down. It is the action that makes the words have meaning.
Don't tell me you love me. Show me.
But words are easy. It is easy to say something, it is easy to find just the right word to make someone take notice, or someone look away .
Words.
Say what you mean. Say what you are. Say what you feel.
Words.
Words have no power without actions. Words are like a leaf in the wind. Here one moment and gone the next unless the action is behind them.
It is easy to learn words. And it is easy to say words. It is not so easy to do words. To say what you mean and then to do it.
Words.
Say I love you. Say it 1000 times. Say it again. What is it? Said and gone. Love me, that is harder to do.
Words.
Words can be weapons. Words can hurt and destroy the fragile soul of a sub. Measure your words, speak slowly. Follow the words with an action.
Throw out words. Make them sound good. Use them to soothe, to hurt, to teach or to tear down. It is the action that makes the words have meaning.
Don't tell me you love me. Show me.
Saturday, April 16, 2011
Speaking of Doms
So listen up Doms!!
I talk alot about what a sub wants an needs. That is because I have those wants and needs. What does a Dom want? I can only speculate I suppose.
A Dom wants to dominate. Oh that was easy.
What does that mean? He wants to take the will, the mind and the body of another and mold, bend, shape and use for his pleasure and her fulfillment. Does that sum it up? Am I on the right track?
Why? Because he can.
What does a Dom want and need? I can't say for sure. I can only speculate. He wants respect. He wants to know that his sub holds his wants and needs above her own. He wants to know he will be "taken care of".
WHOOOAAA!!!!!!!!
Taken care of? Does he want that? Is there a human being that does not want at some point to be taken care of?
I have been told that being with a sub can calm the mind. Being with a sub can free a soul, Being with a sub can inspire creativity. Is this not being taken care of?
What is it that a sub does for him? Each one is different, each one is unique and only the two, Dom and sub can define the relationship.
It only stands to reason that where there's sacrifice, there's someone collecting the sacrificial offerings. Where there's service, there is someone being served. The man who speaks to you of sacrifice is speaking of slaves and masters, and intends to be the master. Ann Rand
I talk alot about what a sub wants an needs. That is because I have those wants and needs. What does a Dom want? I can only speculate I suppose.
A Dom wants to dominate. Oh that was easy.
What does that mean? He wants to take the will, the mind and the body of another and mold, bend, shape and use for his pleasure and her fulfillment. Does that sum it up? Am I on the right track?
Why? Because he can.
What does a Dom want and need? I can't say for sure. I can only speculate. He wants respect. He wants to know that his sub holds his wants and needs above her own. He wants to know he will be "taken care of".
WHOOOAAA!!!!!!!!
Taken care of? Does he want that? Is there a human being that does not want at some point to be taken care of?
I have been told that being with a sub can calm the mind. Being with a sub can free a soul, Being with a sub can inspire creativity. Is this not being taken care of?
What is it that a sub does for him? Each one is different, each one is unique and only the two, Dom and sub can define the relationship.
It only stands to reason that where there's sacrifice, there's someone collecting the sacrificial offerings. Where there's service, there is someone being served. The man who speaks to you of sacrifice is speaking of slaves and masters, and intends to be the master. Ann Rand
Thursday, April 14, 2011
What do subs dream of?
What do subs dream about? How many times am I asked "What do you seek?". How I struggle not to give pat answers, the easy ones.
What do I dream about?
I dream of that Master that sees the wonders of my soul. The Master that seeks the pleasure and the joy I will bring him.
I dream of that Master that will learn me and seek to fulfil my needs. The needs I am aware of and the needs I have not discovered yet.
I dream of that Master that will ferret out my flaws. He will bring them to the surface and lead me to confront each and every one.
He will not settle for anything less than all of me. It will be glorious, it will be painful and it will take me to places I have never been. And through it all, He will be there leading me, pushing me, and holding me when I need it.
Through it all, He will find pleasure in shaping and joy in the blossom.
Beyond My Best
You hold me in a world of love
Engulfing me with warmth
Taking me beyond all I know
Raising me beyond my best
Taking hold of my weaknesses
And turning them into strengths
Making me more than I could hope
Raising me beyond my best
You lead me through play and sceneing
The pain and love takes hold
Pushing my boundaries all the way
Raising me beyond my best
In life and in love my Master
Showing me how to cope
With what life has been dealt to me
Raising me beyond my best
Today and then tomorrow
Now and in the future
I know you will keep me growing
Raising me beyond my best
author unknown
What do I dream about?
I dream of that Master that sees the wonders of my soul. The Master that seeks the pleasure and the joy I will bring him.
I dream of that Master that will learn me and seek to fulfil my needs. The needs I am aware of and the needs I have not discovered yet.
I dream of that Master that will ferret out my flaws. He will bring them to the surface and lead me to confront each and every one.
He will not settle for anything less than all of me. It will be glorious, it will be painful and it will take me to places I have never been. And through it all, He will be there leading me, pushing me, and holding me when I need it.
Through it all, He will find pleasure in shaping and joy in the blossom.
Beyond My Best
You hold me in a world of love
Engulfing me with warmth
Taking me beyond all I know
Raising me beyond my best
Taking hold of my weaknesses
And turning them into strengths
Making me more than I could hope
Raising me beyond my best
You lead me through play and sceneing
The pain and love takes hold
Pushing my boundaries all the way
Raising me beyond my best
In life and in love my Master
Showing me how to cope
With what life has been dealt to me
Raising me beyond my best
Today and then tomorrow
Now and in the future
I know you will keep me growing
Raising me beyond my best
author unknown
Submissive Power
Submissive
Power
Two words that seem to not fit together. Submissive is to yield, if you yield you are not strong. A submissive yields as a choice, think about how strong that must make her. She knows she has power, she knows she has strength. Yet, she CHOOSES to yield that to a Dom. She takes her power and gives it to Him to add to the power He has so that they both can benefit. What amazing strength that must take to see that which we know we control, released and given over to someone else to control.
“In the world there is nothing more submissive and weak than water. Yet for attacking that which is hard and strong nothing can surpass it.” Lao-Tzu
Power
Two words that seem to not fit together. Submissive is to yield, if you yield you are not strong. A submissive yields as a choice, think about how strong that must make her. She knows she has power, she knows she has strength. Yet, she CHOOSES to yield that to a Dom. She takes her power and gives it to Him to add to the power He has so that they both can benefit. What amazing strength that must take to see that which we know we control, released and given over to someone else to control.
“In the world there is nothing more submissive and weak than water. Yet for attacking that which is hard and strong nothing can surpass it.” Lao-Tzu
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